Valentine’s Day is one particular date of the year on which singles around the world feel a need to stay cooped up in their houses. Even those who choose to remain single feel terrible. All the PDAs going around everywhere become way too saddening for them, and they wish that 14th February would stop existing. My fellow brethren, I understand your pain and wish to resolve it. That is why I set about finding ways for us- me and you- to keep ourselves occupied on Valentine’s Day and away from all the lovey-doveyness.
This Valentine’s Day, you can plan a perfect day with your loved ones in a variety of places. With the malls, cafeterias, and restaurants that will get crowded with lovebirds on Valentine’s Day, February 14th, there’s no reason for the singles to feel like a fish out of the pond. Whilst couples enjoy their dates, there are many interesting ways in which you, the singles, can have fun as well.
11 Ways To Celebrate V-Day
We’ve compiled a list of the best ways you can celebrate this day of love with your special one like never before. Take a look at this list, and make the best of it.
1. Get Together With Your Tribe
If you are single, you sure do have your tribe, don’t you? So, meet with your friends and plan a sleepover, an afternoon luncheon, dinner, or perhaps a long drive to a day tour destination. Pull up a quirky act with a friend or plan a back-to-back movie hangout. When you are with your soul tribe, not a single moment is dull.
If your friends are all sorted in their love lives, guess you’re the odd one out. Still, you could go on a solo trip. Who knows? Maybe you find someone, too, and the solo trip becomes a duet.
2. Indulge Yourself Completely
Let me tell you something: Valentine’s Day is as much about self-love as couple love. If you’re single, then why not indulge in some self-love? After all, when it comes to ourselves, we rarely act selfishly. Although it applies more to single women, men can also dive in! If you’re a single lady, treat yourself to a little self-care, walk into a beauty boutique, and pick from spa treatments, value-for-money beauty packages, aromatherapy sessions, or relaxing herbal massages. Single men, too, can opt for natural treatment therapies, such as the traditional Indian Shiro Dhara, in any popular nature cure center. Furthermore, they can browse through their favourite watch or shoe brands and gift themselves.
3. Find Out a New Pursuit
Valentine’s Day is a wonderful time to fall in love with something new, and it doesn’t need to be a person. Is there a hobby you want to pursue? For instance, did you always want to learn Western contemporary, rumba, or salsa? If yes, February 14th is a great time to enroll in a dance class and fall in love with this newfound pursuit of yours. Though, make sure it’s not a couple’s dance class. Add in more to the list if you want- music, photography, art classes, etc. Go to a bookstore and fall in love with books. Make sure to do something worth this day rather than just lying in bed.
4. Show Love Where There’s a Need
Whilst the world celebrates this special day by enjoying the best food, movies, and drinks, there are sections of people who can only wish for it! The homeless, the destitute in an orphanage or NGO homes, the senior citizens at an old age home, special children in a specialized center, and the like. You can connect with a local NGO that supports any of the mentioned causes and celebrate Valentine’s Day together, doing something different for those for whom a small act of love would mean the world.
There’s no better way to kill loneliness than spreading love with the ones who desperately need your love. Volunteer at one such NGO, interact with these underprivileged people, share their pain, and give them your love and care.
5. Netflix & Chill
Okay, maybe you don’t have to get out of the house. You can just spend the whole day bingeing your favorite TV series or movie trilogy on Netflix or any other streaming service. Mind you, the streaming service would try its best to make you watch some rom-com, not realizing your predicament. But you don’t even touch them.
Stay away from all rom-com films and shows (Even the ones in which the hero/heroine claims not believe in love but eventually ends up falling for the heroine/hero). Just this day, Action and Horror are your best friends.6. Work on Your Spirituality
Feeling full by yourself is a reality. You can do so by meditating. You can also do so by connecting yourself to God. Having a relationship with God is a form of meditation. It helps you be present, which is the very essence of being happy and, in fact, is mindfulness. We know from therapists that there are multiple ways to feel mindful. The prime concept of mindfulness is focusing on one thing and not deviating from it. It will help you keep out all the feelings of FOMO, insecurities, and the feeling that you are not enough.
7. Give Social Media a Break
Being on social media will lead you to compare yourself with lives that are “perfect”. It is easy to feel less of yourself when you are watching reels based out of a restaurant, and the V-cakes being slit. So do yourself a favor and keep your phone away for a while. This will help you have a better time when you can, in reality, connect with your family or just your gang the way you should.
8. Throw an Anti-Valentine’s Day Bash
If nothing works, here’s an idea: why not throw an anti-Valentine’s Day party, just to vent your frustration! Just find out why Valentine’s Day doesn’t deserve the hype it gets (even if it was just meant to vent your frustration) and get all the singles in a room to talk about it. Rather, focus on the day and the story behind it, and so on. So you’ll be better prepared for what to do the next time.
9. Pamper Yourself
Treat yourself to a day of self-pampering and love. Sink into relaxation with a soothing massage, luxuriate in a long, fragrant bath, or stretch and rejuvenate your body with yoga. Engage in activities that nourish your soul and uplift your spirits, whether it’s reading a favorite book, listening to calming music, or indulging in creative pursuits. When you order your favorite food, buy your favorite game or clothing item, check out online Valentine’s Day offers, and enjoy exciting discounts. Embrace this opportunity to prioritize your well-being and bask in the joy of self-love.
10. Write Letters to Your (Future) Self
As a single on Valentine’s Day, remember to celebrate self-love and independence. Embrace this day as an opportunity for personal growth and reflection. Take yourself on adventures, indulge in self-care, and cherish the love of friends and family. Use this time to nurture your passions and prioritize your well-being. Believe in yourself, knowing that love takes many forms and your worth is not determined by your relationship status.
11. Take Up a Fitness Challenge
Challenge yourself with a fitness activity that gets your heart pumping and your endorphins flowing. Whether it’s a challenging yoga session, a scenic bike ride, or a high-energy dance workout, prioritize your physical health and well-being on Valentine’s Day.
With interesting ways to spice up your sleeve, Valentine’s Day can be fun and eventful, even for singles! Consider trying some or even all of the activities mentioned above. You won’t be killing time on Valentine’s Day; you will be making it memorable.
This article is a part of our series on Valentine’s Day.
